Friday, June 1, 2012

Dining Out...

Dining out with a toddler is challenging, let me tell ya. You not only have to find something they like to eat (or bring food with you -- which is a pain) AND you have to keep them occupied so they don't scream and shriek at the top of their lungs because they're bored lol!  Evelyn never gets sad/mad/upset. She is just either excited or bored... I usually try to bring some books/toys with me whenever we go out and some finger snacks while we wait for our food. Sometimes, however I forget to bring the snacks and she gets annoyed if she's hungry! We went out to lunch with a friend today and Evelyn was just a ball of energy! On top of that, all she wanted to eat was pickles and potato chips... This is the only thing that kept her quiet, so I obliged. I tried to slide in the occasional piece of bread or mac 'n cheese, which is what we got her for lunch, but she wanted nothing to do with it! I surrendered... lol

Jody and I eat out a fair amount... I'd say at least once a week. Usually Evelyn is okay when we take her places, but sometimes she just won't quit! Thus, we usually just bring home take out and I make something for her at home when we do decide to do that. Otherwise, she eats whatever I make for us!

I think she's just curious and excited to be out and see new things and new people. I just feel so self conscious that people are staring or whispering when she acts up... I guess I have to just bear with it for now. Hopefully she grows out of her screaming and shrieking stage soon! lol!

Jody and I are hoping we can go out for our 6 year wedding anniversary next weekend... Our anniversary is actually this Sunday BUT my parents are out of town and my sister has a wedding to go to, so we have no one to watch Evie! I am looking forward to a meal I can actually eat and taste and enjoy rather than shoving food down my throat so I can entertain a 1 year old haha! Hopefully my parents or sister can watch her next weekend....

Thursday, May 31, 2012

2 Full Time Jobs!

For those who don't know, I have a full time job and work from home 4 days a week (I go in to the office on Tuesdays), so I am able to stay at home with Evelyn!  I work as a Database Administrator and fortunately, our client does not require us to be on-site and my company allows all of us to work from home 3-4 days a week! I don't make as much as I probably should, but I do make a decent amount and definitely "a lot" for getting to sit my butt at home almost every day haha!

Being a working mom and having to take care of your child all day while working is TOUGH!  However, I am very grateful that I have this privilege. It can be tough at times, but I try to manage as best I can. I guess you can say I have 2 full time jobs!

With Evelyn being almost 15 months old, I have been thinking about a future child (but not yet!!!) I really don't want Evelyn to be alone, but I know that having another child and working full time would be a VERY tough challenge. With that said, my husband and I are trying to work as hard as we can to put ourselves in a financial situation where we can rely on one income instead of two! Hopefully we can make that happen within the next couple of years. I really don't want more than a 4-5 year gap between children. My husband is more along the lines of 3-4 years, but I am just not ready to be pregnant again just yet!

So.... for now, I will continue to do my job and take care of Evelyn as best I can, so that we can make the best life for her that we can!

Here are some pictures, since I haven't posted one in forever!




Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Mornings at my house...

Mornings at my house are very relaxed. Evelyn never cries or whines for us to come get her. However, we do know when she's up because she starts calling our dog, Molly! It's the cutest thing ever.  She will wake up, stretch and start yelling "Mo-yee" for the dog to come to her (which the dog does not do might I add -- lazy dog!)

I can count on one hand the number of times Evelyn has woken up unhappy... She is always happy in the morning, even if she's hungry.

Once I get myself out of bed and dressed, I go in to her room, pick out an outfit for her and try to get her out of bed. She's a little lazy one (like her mama!) She will lay or sit there and play with her favorite toy (My Pal Violet by LeapFrog) and just smile at me and be silly! She's so hilarious... When she finally stands up or gets closer to the edge of the crib (since I am too short to reach her when she's laying down), I pick her up, change her and bring her down for breakfast.  Evie is on a rotation of yogurt, waffles/pancakes and cereal for the most part. I also throw in some fruit depending on the meal. I really need to try to get her to eat toast or eggs more often... she's not very adventurous when it comes to foods!

After Evelyn eats breakfast, she usually plays around in the living/dining rooms while I work. I am very fortunate to work from home 4 days a week, so I have her playing here while I do that, so I can keep an eye on her!  The mornings usually go by pretty quick... she goes down for a nap at about 11 and during that time I work or get other things done around the house. We've got our routine down and we stick to it pretty well. Sometimes on the weekends we stray from the routine, but she's really good about adjusting! Thank goodness!

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

14 months and counting...

As you can imagine, raising a child and working full time is not easy and does not give you a lot of free time. Hence my not updating this blog in 8 months (haha!)

Evelyn is now 14.5 months old. She is as amazing as ever!

Here are a couple milestones:


-First word: da-da (of course!)
-Began crawling around 8 or 9 months
-Began standing shortly after crawling
-First steps (May 9, 2011) 6 days before her 1st Birthday!

Evelyn now walks (runs) around the house! There is no stopping her! She says the following words: ma-ma, da-da, baba (grandma), dzia-dzia (grandpa), Go-ga (my sister, Gosia), Molly (our dog), me, baby, yes (ssss)... I'm sure there are others I am forgetting but these are the ones she says most often. She is also a very happy baby. She still sleeps through the night (9pm - 8:30 a.m. ish) and she's learning toeat different foods every day.  We cut out formula at about 11 months and now she's strictly on whole milk (organic). She also drinks juice, water and iced tea (which she LOVES).

Evelyn also has just about all of her teeth (including 2 year molars!) Teething hasn't proved to be very bothersome for her... The last few have given her some problems but she doesn't really cry... she gets a bit fussy and whiny, but when it's time for bed, she still sleeps through the night. (I know... I am the LUCKIEST mom ever!)

Recently we took our first plane trip with her and she was A-MAZING! She slept through all the flights for the most part... when she wasn't sleeping she was watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse on the Touchpad or just hanging out.  I swear this kid is the best kid EVER.

I am loving being a mom! Though I must admit, it is challenging at times! Juggling work and Evelyn is an every day challenge, but we do just fine.  The past 2 months we have been remodeling our kitchen, so our house has been a state of disaster, but we are nearing the end, so hopefully within the next month or so we can get things back to normal!

We are looking forward to summer and getting out and doing fun things like going to the zoo, exploring our awesome city and taking some trips to the pool!

Monday, September 26, 2011

Evelyn is Amazing!

So I haven't posted in a long time... Evelyn is now 6 months and 2 weeks old. Can you believe it?

This little child is the most amazing thing in my life. I can't imagine anything in life being more gratifying and exciting than being a mother.  At first I was so scared of raising a baby and being a good mom, but Evelyn is such an amazing and good baby that she makes it fairly easy!

I spend most of my days alone with Evelyn because I work from home. I spend my day doing my work and taking time to play with and take care of Evelyn! It's tough at times because all I want to do is play with her, but for now I have to keep my job! Thank goodness Evelyn is so good and can entertain herself if she needs to! :)

Evelyn is growing and changing so much every day! Some milestones that have been reached til this point:

- Two bottom teeth (July 2011)
- Two top teeth (September 2011)
- Flipping from Back to tummy
- Flipping from tummy to back
- Rolling
- Playing with toys
- "Talking" (ma ma, ba ba, da da and whatever else comes out of her mouth)
- Responding to me (when she says 'Ah' and I say it back, she says it back again (so cute!)
- Gurgling
- Smiling and Laughing
- Getting excited when she sees the dog
- Recognizng people she knows
- Eating 'solids' (rice, oatmeal, bananas, apples and today we're going to try pears!)

She loves her baths and sleeps through the night. She hardly ever cries and loves to play. I could not ask for a better kid. I am so blessed <3

Here's a recent picture of my little angel!

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

10 weeks and counting!

Last night before we put Evelyn to bed, Jody and I debated whether or not we should cover her in a receiving blanket. We've been doing this since she was born, as she hated to have her hands covered and be swaddled. So instead we have been kind of wrapping her up in a receiving blanket. Lately she's been managing to kick it off of herself in her sleep.

Yesterday we woke to find the blanket wrapped around her torso but her legs and arms were free to move around. So, I asked Jody if we should cover her with the blanket last night and we agreed to. I also asked him if I should take her toys and other (thick) blanket out of the crib because they were sitting at the other end of her crib... he said "nah, she can't make it to the other side of the bed yet." WRONG.

This morning I woke up and went to check on her and she had scooted herself all the way down to the other side of the bed lol! She was stopped by the toys lying there, otherwise I'm sure she would have made it to the very end. I called Jody into the room to check it out and he was as surprised as I was! I guess from now on we're going to have to put her in the sleep sack at bedtime. During the day I check on her frequently so I make sure nothing's covering her face and that she's not getting wrapped up. I can't believe she's moving around so much already!

In other news, I started work last Monday. So far it's been going well. For those that don't know, I work from home mostly. I'm lucky enough to have a job that allows me to do this. If I had to pay for daycare, I probably wouldn't work because it wouldn't be worth it. Anyway, Evelyn has been doing very well during the day even when I can't pay attention to her for a while. She either lays on the bed in my office (AKA the guest room) or in her crib. After her "Lunch" feeding I usually move her downstairs and let her play on her activity mat for a while (if she's awake), otherwise she sleeps in her swing.So far so good.


Ultimately my goal is not to work anymore. We could most likely afford our same lifestyle off of Jody's new salary, but we have some things that we want to pay off first before I consider no longer working... For now it's good to have the extra income!

Monday, May 16, 2011

2 months already?

My baby turned 2 months old yesterday! Where has the time gone? It's just flying by so quickly.


Evelyn is a happy baby! She loves to play and only cries when she's hungry or if her tummy is bothering her.

 
She is now smiling SOOOO much and also making all those cute baby noises. She responds to sound and definitely responds to my voice! As soon as she hears me in the room, her head turns towards me to find me! It makes my heart melt every time she does that :) It's so darn cute!  She also LOVES her mobiles in her crib and on her swing. She can watch them for hours (if she doesn't drift off to sleep first ;) ). She also loves to play on her activity mat and tries to reach for the toys and kicks her legs when she gets excited! It's so amazing to me how such a little baby can already do so much! I love seeing what new things she does each day :)

Since I haven't posted since Evelyn was 10 days old, here's her 1 and 2 month pictures that I took :)